Planning a Funeral: 5 Tips to Help You Through the Process

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Sharing The Burden: Ideas For Funeral Arrangements

Hello, everybody. My name is Lois, and I am in my seventies. It might be hard to believe, but I attended my first funeral when I was sixty-five years old. Since then, I have suffered the loss of quite a few family members and close friends. In fact, I have now organised over a dozen funerals. As someone who had been so blessed, it really came as a shock when I first experienced the trauma of making funeral arrangements whilst still finding time to grieve. It really taught me the importance of having an empathetic and creative funeral director that can help share the burden and honour your loved one appropriately. Hopefully, this blog will help those who, like me, had no idea about the enormity of the task a funeral organiser faces. I trust that the ideas within will prove comforting and inspiring during this difficult time. Thank you.

Planning a Funeral: 5 Tips to Help You Through the Process

23 January 2023
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The loss of a family member is one of the most difficult experiences in life. It can be overwhelming trying to plan a funeral during this difficult time. Here are five tips that will help you through the process of planning a funeral for your loved one.

Tip #1: Take Time for Yourself

The funeral planning process can be emotionally draining, but it's important to take time out for yourself and care for your needs. It's okay to feel overwhelmed and cry if you need to. It is important that you allow yourself the time and space to grieve. Remember, you do not have to do everything at once, so break up the tasks into manageable chunks that work for you and your family.

Tip #2: Reach Out For Help

Don't try to go through this process alone if possible. Ask friends, family or clergy members for help with funeral arrangements or just emotional support. If there isn't anyone close by who can help, consider hiring a professional funeral planner who can assist with the details and paperwork associated with funerals. They will be able to provide guidance on things like casket selection, burial sites, storage of remains, legal paperwork, post-funeral memorial services and more.

Tip #3: Create a Budget

Funerals can be expensive, so it's important to create a budget and stick with it as much as possible. Consider what kind of service is most appropriate for your loved one. Make sure that all decisions are made within the framework of your budget so that money isn't wasted unnecessarily on items or services that won't bring any comfort or closure in the end.

Tip #4: Personalise The Service

It's important to make sure that the service reflects your loved one's wishes as much as possible—this may mean incorporating their favourite songs into the ceremony, displaying photos from their life at the visitation/viewing or writing personal eulogies. Having these personalised touches will ensure that everyone in attendance feels connected to them in some way.

Tip #5: Use Technology

If people aren't able to attend in person due to health concerns or distance issues, consider using technology like video streaming services or social media platforms so they can still join virtually from anywhere around the world.


Planning a funeral is never easy; it requires lots of emotional energy, financial resources and attention to detail throughout every process. But following these five tips should make it easier for you during this difficult time. If you would like further advice, contact a funeral planning solutions company today.